101 sex life hacks and why you need them

Why is it that we always think that everybody else seems to have a nicer, better relationship and sex life than ourselves? Maybe because we have the wrong mindset. We think that in order for us to be turned on, sexual and happy, we have to spend huge amounts of money on vacations, expensive clothing or other material things, when in fact, the key to a healthy, happy sex life comes from the small, seemingly insignificant things we do on a daily basis. When exploring your own (and maybe that of your partner's) desires and dreams, you sometimes need a little support and that's where this book comes in handy. 101 sex life hacks - A sex coach's short guide to an orgasmic lifestyle - will, if you let it, definitely change your perspective on turn on and sexual energy. It exist because I did the journey myself, after feeling unsatisfied for many years, and the biggest thing I found out was this: It all starts with you.

In 2017 my life took quite a dramatic turn when I fell in love with a client I was working with. The short story is I left the father of my children, my old job and my entire comfort zone because I so strongly felt that I wasn't living my true, authentic self. The romance didn't last but it gave me a sense of direction - I wanted more out of life so I asked myself "What makes me feel alive and happy?" The answer was actually sex. Now you might think "How can you have sex as an interest?" Well, if you know anything about human nature you know that our sexual energy is one of our strongest forces and also the source of life. I felt I needed a deeper connection to my own turn on. I wanted to live a more honest and authentic life and in order to do so, I had to embrace my sexuality and come to the realization that everything I want and need - is already mine. I started to work for an erotics company with education and information about intimacy and communication, sex toys, sexual aid products and from there I decided to study a master's degree in sexology on top of my bachelor's degree in behavioral science. My journey has taken me into many ups and downs - many meetings with people inside - and outside of the bedroom. This book is my way of sharing what I've learnt over the years as to how you CAN have an orgasmic life - every single day of that's your wish.